The Truth Is the Strategy

(Not the mask, not the plan, not the polish, just the truth.)

It’s not about being the loudest in the room, leading the charge or going first just to prove that you can. Although… I do love going first 😉

But lately, I’ve realised this: It’s not about going first. It’s about being willing to stop lying to yourself.

That’s where real healing begins.

The moment I stopped performing the version of me that made others comfortable, the version that always had it together, moved fast, stayed polished and I started telling the real truth…

Everything shifted.

The truth didn’t come from my mind. It came from my body. From a fire that burned with clarity in moments that felt chaotic and threatening to everyone else. A fire that transmuted every ounce of ‘please others’ energy I’d been carrying.

It sounded like:

“I don’t want to do it this way anymore.”
“I feel like I’m pretending.”
“I’m exhausted from hiding.”
“I’m ready for the truth, even if it undoes everything I built on the masked lie.”

That’s when the layers started to shed, for real.

Not because I was strategic. But because I was honest, with myself, first.

I became the one who could stand in the centre of the storm and say:
“This is what’s real. This is what’s true. Even if it’s messy. Even when it hurts. Especially then.”

That’s what people trust. In between that space of what was and what’s to be, is rarely calm. Having a transpersonal point of view helped me retain my sanity and sense of humour many times along the often quite bumpy trail!

I bought into all the polish and promises. I followed the formulas and tried doing it the “right” way, and was left discouraged, and frustrated time and time again.

What really matters now?

Your presenceand your permission to be who you truly are, mask off, power on. No judgement!

Because when you’re honest with yourself, others feel safe enough to be honest with themselves.

This is the work I do now. Not for surface wins, but for soul-level cycles.
To guide you not just into your next big thing… but through it.

Your Soul craves truth through transformation. Visibility that feels safe. Completion of the full cycle, not just the “aha,” but the after.

Because transformation doesn’t end when you get the insight.
It deepens through the grief, the doubt, the silence, and the celebration. Until you can finally hold it all. Without running.

So if you’ve been carrying a quiet truth inside you, and you’ve felt the fire flickering beneath the mask, I’m right here.

Mask off.
Ready when you are.

Ready to name what’s true, and let it lead you?

Let’s meet for a Compass Mind Shift Call: https://bit.ly/SOMindshift   

Not to plan. Not to push.
But to feel, drop in and listen.

Together, we’ll name what’s real and map your next move from there.