Why Does This Keep Happening to Me?

We are all products of our parents and our ancestors before them. They set the energetic code for our life’s imprint. Like fingerprints, everyone is unique, even identical twins because of our individual perceptions and our choices made as a result.

This is why we get in loops of repeating patterns, attached to stealthy self sabotage behaviours — because somehow in our little child’s brain we think we’re keeping ourselves safe — and end up frustrated and confused wondering, “why does this keep happening to me?”

It’s a good question. The answer is NOT “out there,” it is within yourself.

When you start to pay attention to your emotions which are your personal guidance system, you can begin to dive a bit deeper into what is really going on.

Frustration is only a surface symptom of much deeper issues like not being seen or heard. Do you keep attracting manipulative relationships? It’s not THEM, it’s YOU!

Yeah, I know that’s a hard pill to swallow. Who did you FIRST give up your power to? Even though deep down inside you felt conflicted or uncomfortable but you wanted to please someone for whatever the reason….

It’s those niggling uncomfortable feelings inside of us that don’t seem to have a loud enough voice, call it gut instincts, intuition, a “knowing,” a feeling.

These are the guiding emotions that we need to be paying attention to and SPEAK UP. When we don’t speak our truth our feelings exacerbate and get suppressed and eventually this can even lead to illness.

I’ve had to learn most of this the hard way! I’ve lost a lot of so called friends along the way when I stopped bending over backwards to please everyone at my own expense and started putting my needs first.

Breaking our lifetime of practiced patterns can feel overwhelming! But it is possible! Start asking yourself, “Does this bring me joy?” And if it doesn’t, go deeper and ask yourself why? What’s missing?

The neural pathways in our brain hold our subconscious limiting beliefs which manifest as our thoughts, words and our behaviours.

Each neural pathway has a receptor at the end of it that locks that program into place. The belief work I do breaks the receptor from holding the neural pathway so that a new more positive and empowering one can be created.

I also clear foetal memories and ancestral energy as we hold at least 7 generations of memories!

Then I work with the energy body and your chakra system, to make sure nothing is stuck in you that shouldn’t be there and to help your energy flow correctly throughout your body.

Most people get stuck because they are out of alignment energetically and therefore cannot move forward with ease and flow, or they are locked into subconscious limiting beliefs.

The sessions are educational and you will have a deeper understanding of why you think and behave the way you do.

Deep self understanding is the greatest starter gift we can give ourselves, because once we can own our shadow and do the work necessary to heal, we can transform our lives and experience a greater sense of inner peace completely!

Tired of being stuck in a loop? Book a free call.