Have you ever felt completely stuck even though you’re doing everything “right”?
You’re meditating, you’re doing the affirmations, you’re drinking your green juice, and you’re showing up for the inner work. And yet, you’re still in the same loop. It’s like trying to drive a car with the parking brake on. Your conscious mind is screaming, Yes, let’s go! but your life is staying firmly in park.
The truth is, your conscious mind, the part of you reading this right now, is only a tiny fraction of who you are. The real driver is your subconscious, and as I always say, your cells don’t lie.
We like to think we are logical adults making rational decisions. But most of our internal operating system was programmed during our formative years, specifically from birth to about two years old. This is when we created our most foundational belief systems.
But it goes even deeper. As we discussed in my latest Beyond Birth Trauma – From Burden to Brilliance show, (https://youtu.be/HxQWmrCiJJU), we also carry inherited beliefs from our ancestors. If your grandmother felt it wasn’t safe to be seen, or your great-grandfather believed that money was the root of all evil, those beliefs can be tucked away in your cellular memory.
When your conscious goals (like growing a business or finding love) clash with those deep-seated subconscious programs, the subconscious wins every time. That is subconscious sabotage.
So, how do we find out what our subconscious actually believes? We ask the body.
Muscle testing (or applied kinesiology) is a way to tap into the body’s electrical system. When you state something that is true for you, your electrical signals flow strongly and your muscles stay firm. When you state something that is false (a stressor), your electrical circuit momentarily shorts out, and the muscle goes weak.
Here is how to do the Ring-Finger method:
- Form a Ring: With your non-dominant hand, press the tip of your thumb and your ring finger together firmly to form a circle.
- The Link: Take the index finger of your other hand and place them inside that circle.
- The Test: State a clear truth, like “My name is [Your Name].” Try to break through the ring, with your index finger. If it stays closed and strong, that’s a Yes.
- The Contrast: Now state a clear lie, like “My name is Rudolph.” Try to break through again. Usually, the ring will break open easily. That’s a No.
The secret to successful muscle testing is in how you ask. Your subconscious doesn’t do well with “maybe” or open-ended rambling. It needs a clear, positive, present-tense statement.
Instead of asking, “Should I take this job?” (which is an open-ended question), try stating: “It is in my highest and best interest to take this job.” This bypasses the ego and the mental monkey chatter and gets straight to the vibrational truth of the matter. You can test your vitamins, your investments, or even deep beliefs like, “I am worthy of abundance.” (If that last one breaks through your ring, you’ve found a block that needs clearing!)
I always have a closed container of water nearby. This isn’t just because I like to stay hydrated, it’s because water is a conductor. It can also absorb any negative energies which is why I keep my water container closed.
Our bodies are over 70% water. If you are dehydrated, your electrical signals will be sluggish and your muscle testing results will be off or sludgy. If you want your energy body to flow, and if you want clear answers from your intuition, you must get with the program and drink your water! Flowing water equals flowing energy.
Muscle testing is a form of Practical Magic. It takes the guesswork out of self-development. You don’t have to wonder if a belief is cleared or if a certain path is right for you, you can simply ask your cells.
Start small. Test your food. Test your supplements. As you build trust with your body, you’ll find that you have the most honest, reliable compass in the world living right inside your own skin.
Want to dive deeper into clearing the blocks you find? Check out my program, The Return to You, where we use these tools to release emotional shock and reclaim the power that is rightfully yours. https://gift.shannonoflaherty.com/
Or, book a free 30 minute Truth Map call, to come home to your inner knowing. Speak what’s real, and map your next move from truth, not pressure. Click here: https://bit.ly/MyTruthMap
With love and gratitude.

