What Strengths Hide Your Limitations?

Here’s something to think about: which of your strengths becomes a limitation for you, if you engage it too much? 

We all have strengths and we all have weaknesses. Sometimes our strengths can create or shield a limitation or a gap, a blind spot. 

When we’re very secure with our strengths, sometimes that can override our weaknesses. That weakness or limitation becomes a bit of a blind spot to us. 

Think about what do you do well, that you might be doing too much of well, that could possibly create that gap, blind spot or limitation for yourself. 

For example, if you’re really good at focusing on others, holding space for others, you’re a coach or a healer, (I know the feeling) maybe one of your blind spots or limitations could be that you don’t give enough focus to yourself. 

Perhaps if you’re used to amplifying others all of the time, maybe you can’t receive amplification yourself or you’re generally not great at receiving compliments. 

What if you’re wonderful at showing and expressing your love to  everybody else? Maybe you don’t know how to receive love. 

Consider you’re really good at organising things, you’re a highly organised person, colour coded with all of your files, everything’s in order. So what happens then when you need to chill out and go with the flow? Maybe you get stressed, maybe you get upset. 

You’re a great communicator, you strive to be efficient, clear and understanding all of the time. But then you’re with somebody else who really doesn’t know how to communicate…maybe it triggers or frustrates you, or makes you feel like you’re not being seen or heard. 

There are all sorts of possibilities that we’re missing because we’re not losing any sleep over our invisible limitations. 

Maybe you’re actually physically super strong but because of that, your strength could be taken for emotional strength, whereas emotionally perhaps you need to be stronger there too. 

There’s always another side to whatever we’re giving out. Yin yang, light dark, your strength your shadow. 

So I invite you to think about where is your gap that you’re not looking at, opposite your strength? 

Certainly in the advanced course, Unstoppable You – Unpicking Your Hidden Stories, that’s starting November 13th, that’s what we’re doing. 

We’re looking at all of the strengths that each of these patterns have. And identifying your underlying core pattern that lies under ALL of them. 

We have loads of beliefs and it’s really easy to find what our limiting beliefs are. That’s what From Fear Into Love is all about – finding out what you don’t know that you need to know. 

Whereas Unstoppable You is about getting to that one underlying core pattern, and seeing how it manifests in our lives, and the choices we make because of it, and creating a new growth pathway. Then we can really start to shift in a profound way. 

It’s not just about unpicking all of the drama, trauma and upset, because every aspect of ourselves, every belief that we have, every pattern that we’re playing out, has a positive side and a negative side to it. 

We look at all of the positive aspects of that, so that we can feel amplified and confirmed, feel good about who we are and what we’ve created because of course, nothing’s all bad. 

But then sometimes those positive aspects can create a blind spot to what we’re not seeing about ourselves. It’s that elusive shadow side. So we’re really going to unpick that and I’m so excited that this course is starting. 

But if you’re just starting out, or if you’re still really being triggered about lots of things and you’re noticing that you’re still in same old patterns, then From Fear Into Love is the 12 week course for you.

That will help you understand the way you work, the way you think, why you’re triggered and give you a whole new way of thinking and tools for life so that you can start to process your stuff, feel empowered and have a certain level of control over what’s coming to you in your day to day so that you can shift and clear your energy on a holistic level.

We are mind, body and spirit. It’s great to fix your thinking, because a lot comes from our thinking, but we need to also fix our physical bodies so that all of the energy is flowing properly. And then of course our energetic body holds so much too. 

The shamans believe that any trauma that’s ever happened in any lifetime, lodges in the different layers of our auric field like etchings in glass and if we can clean up our energy field we can change

the way our destiny can be.

It’s really exciting stuff. If you want to come and work with me in person, I also offer one-to-one, two hour sessions with people so that you get some belief work and some energy clearing.

October 21st and 22nd I’m teaching Intro To Shamanic Energy Medicine, in person! In Ilkley, West Yorkshire England. And in November I’ll be teaching an Ancestors course. 

I know a lot of people got out of the habit of going out and meeting people in person since the pandemic, but you’ve got to get out and go meet people and work in person because that’s really where all the magic happens. We’re humans, we need to connect and hug each other.

So if any of that appeals to you, please drop me a private message. I’ll get back to you ASAP and let’s have a chat. 

I’m looking for seven people to interview to see if we’re a good fit to work together. 

When are you ready to change your life?

Now is the time in fact! 

Just the other day I had a wonderful call with a new person that was referred to me. On the call she had a massive AHA and took action and because of our conversation, her life is already changing. 

I love that whether you sign up to work with me or not, I love helping people see things in a new light so that you can take action and make positive changes to your life. 

Yay. Love you all so much.

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